This article was written by Mara Shapiro from the U.S.
Featured photo by Nubia Navarro (nubikini) from Pexels.
“Look deeper into nature, and then you will understand everything better.”
I’ve always found nature to be healing, and where I’ve felt the most relaxed. Previous to my Crohn’s diagnosis I was a competitive rock climber and would frequently travel to some of the best outdoor rock climbing destinations in the United States with my climbing team. It wasn’t just the act of rock climbing or spending time with some of my closest friends, it was truly the beauty, peace, and serenity of nature that made me the happiest. I found a lot of my bliss in the mountains throughout my teenage years whether it was through rock climbing, snowboarding, or hiking.
A childhood dream of mine has been to own an RV so I could camp and enjoy nature with ease and virtually anywhere. This dream became a much more realistic goal when I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease in July 2020. I was diagnosed at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota and I live in Southern California. Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, it was safer for my dad and me to drive the two and half-day nearly 2000 mile trip rather than fly (we also got to bring my best friend and Corgi companion, Morty, on this road trip). I was pretty sick at the time and relied on diapers and lots of Imodium to get through that road trip, which we did a total of twice round trip that summer.
Every time we passed an RV or travel trailer of any kind I would point it out. We must have passed hundreds of them on the 2000 mile stretch of interstate. I would daydream about the day I would have my own RV and be able to just pull over and use my own private toilet whenever I needed it. Sitting in my Subaru Crosstrek wearing a diaper, you bet I was dreaming about all those RVers and how lucky they were to have their own toilet within arms reach. No more accidents, no more sketchy truck stop bathrooms… Of course, I dreamed of other parts of RV life too, and those daydreams helped me pass the time, a time that was full of such fear and unknown.
Fast forward to October 2021, I have graduated college, I have an amazing full-time remote job, and I am ready to start the process of finding and buying my own RV. After months of research, I decided on a Forest River R-Pod 190. It was a perfect size, weight, and floorplan for Morty (my 2.5-year-old Corgi and travel companion) and me. In small travel trailers like mine, the bathrooms are usually very small and called a “wet bath'' where the toilet and shower are in the same space and when you shower the entire bathroom gets wet. I was lucky enough to find a floorplan with a “dry bath”, where the toilet is fully separate from the shower! For the amount of time I spend on the toilet, I knew I needed a dry bath! Add this to the list of things that “normal” people with “normal” colons don’t think about…
At the end of November 2021, I picked up my R-Pod and camped in it for the first time! The past few months have been full of a lot of trial and error, endless learning, and many moments of frustration. I have also felt so empowered by my newfound confidence and independence. I have had so many new experiences and explored beautiful new places with Morty. I have fulfilled my childhood dream and created a new hobby and source of joy that has added so much to my life. IBD and chronic illness can take a lot from us, and can often make us feel out of control. For me, finding an accessible way to camp with my RV is one way that I have taken some of that control back.
Advice for Camping (or getting back into any hobby) with IBD
Take it slow!
I’ve learned (mostly by trying to do too much too quickly) that the best way to partake in strenuous activities is to do it slowly and at your own pace. It’s easy to look around at others and match their pace, but especially when it comes to setting up a campsite there is no rush and it’s not a race. So if I need to take a break and have a snack or drink or lay down on the bed in between setting up or taking down camp then I do! Find your pace and stick to it.
Ask for help!
Asking for help can be hard, but sometimes it’s so needed! Especially with camping, 9 times out of 10 your fellow campers are super friendly and always willing to lend a hand! As a solo female camper, I am hesitant to ask for help unless I really need it, but I have learned that there are usually kind people within an earshot who are there for you. Asking for help from friends and family to help you enjoy your hobbies is also key. Especially when flaring, I’ve been able to have my dad come to assist me with some of the strenuous camping tasks so that I could still enjoy some relaxing time in nature.
Acceptance is key!
Acceptance is a spectrum and some days and in some phases of life, acceptance comes easier than others. I have really channeled my inner acceptance narrative when I go out camping. I try my best to accept things as they are and as they come and not get too frustrated when something unexpected happens or I end up being more symptomatic than I had hoped. I could be feeling sick at home so I might as well be feeling sick in my camper in nature! “It is what it is, and I’m camping,” I say with a (forced) smile when the stress starts to build. Find your acceptance and get back to your beloved hobbies!
Whether it is camping or another outdoor adventure or trying a recipe you haven’t made since your diagnosis or trying something totally new that you’ve always wanted to try, I want to encourage you all to take that leap of faith, argue with that voice in your head that’s been holding you back, and go for it!
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